The non-apology apology

Annabel Crabb has picked up on one of K-Rudd’s favourite cur­rent com­mu­ni­ca­tion tools. The unapolo­getic apology.

These are tra­di­tion­ally expressed in the form of “I make no apol­ogy for x” — where x is some­thing good.

She gives the fol­low­ing les­son for those look­ing to emu­late the PM.

First, you take a prin­ci­ple or propo­si­tion of which the lis­tener is odds-on to approve.

Car­ing for pup­pies, let’s say.

Then you pro­fess to uphold that prin­ci­ple “unapologetically”.

I am an unapolo­getic sup­porter of puppies.”

This first endears you to the lis­tener, and affirms their own views. But the use of the term “unapolo­get­i­cally” does some­thing else, too.

It implic­itly sug­gests that the lis­tener is part — along with you — of a small but coura­geous minority.

If you can suc­cess­fully mas­ter this lit­tle trick the results are a fore­gone conclusion…

By the time you are fin­ished, you and your lis­tener are brothers-in-arms, vision­ar­ies swim­ming bravely against the tide of a bru­tal orthodoxy.”

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